How can I overcome my fear of flying?
Feb 16
Question by Whitney S: How can I conquer my dread of flying?
My father is spending for my husband, 2 young children, and I spherical trip airline tickets to go to New York, and DC for a journey. This excursion will be occurring subsequent month, and I am afraid to death to fly. I have flown a couple of moments, and everytime I have, I have been so frightened that I am frozen stiff in my seat until finally the plane lands, not to mention that I really feel like I am heading to throw up the whole journey. I aspiration about flying all the time, but I by no means crash. Occasionally in my dream, we have to land for emergencies. Now the believed of crashing with my total family on board frightens me much more than anything. I never have any cash to just take any courses on my worry of flying, and I do not know if drugs will make it any less difficult for me, or if they will just complicate matters. A person remember to help me! I am nauseous and shaky just seated right here considering about it.
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Answer by landersonjr1958
I employed to be a white knuckler also, I was flying to Palm Springs CA with my daughter and stopped in Vegas to pick up much more folks and asked the flight attendant how numerous occasions a day they did just take off and land, and did she know where we have been correct now. She looked out the window and said it seems like somewhere in the mountains (she had no thought). She stated they just take off and land a dozen occasions a day! It finally hit me… this was just a massive body fat bus….with wings. Would I get nervous on a bus? No. So it also strike me when turbulence strikes I just near my eyes and make feel I am in my truck on a again road bumping along and it doesn’t bother me any more. The airline pilots are extremely nicely educated and never want to put the aircraft in the mud any more than you do. Hope this helps.
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May 18 at 23:29
You don’t… you just get pregnant and deal with it. When it comes time for the baby to come out you’ll be ready and over your fear. If you’re not, then you’d better hurry it up because that baby won’t stay there forever.
May 18 at 23:29
nope i didnt
May 19 at 00:28
its normal for people to fear having kids of there own because they wonder what kind of mother theyre gonna be and how they are gonna take care of them….the fear will subside when youre more ready to have kids….
May 19 at 01:13
i was TERRIFIED of being a mom. when I was about 38 weeks pregnant, i was like, “I can’t do this, I can’t do this”. but you know what? my daughter is almost 3 years old, and i CAN do this. she’s the best part of me. sure it’s tough…especially when she’s throwing a tantrum or being a brat, but she’s a great kid for the most part, and i make sure i hug her & cuddle & kiss her every day & ALWAYS tell her i love her. that makes it easier for me. i’m sooo madly in love with my daughter…that the fear kind of goes away.
when she says, “i love you mom” and when i pick her up from daycare, and she sees me & comes RUNNING down the hall calling, “MOMMY!”…THAT is how i know it’s all worth it!
May 19 at 01:15
Why are you afraid? And if you do become pregnant it can sometimes cause those feelings to go away…
May 19 at 01:57
It’s one of these things that you have to face heads on. You just do it. Initially you may be fearful, but with each day you will find yourself dealing with it a little bit better. Your family and friends can be a great source of support.
May 19 at 02:49
I was so scared to have my own up until I actually had him. In the hospital, I had a c-section and only saw him once before I was in the recovery room and he was a few hours old before I got to hold him .. and as soon as I did, mother-mode kicked in and all my fears of being a mother went away. HOWEVER – the fears of being a GOOD mother, being scared for your child all the time, etc., don’t ever go away. Good luck, relax, and have one if you want to!